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Mon, Feb 3, 2014 07:57:45 AM
∀ it has become obvious to me, that the members of this fellowship ∀
posted: Mon, Feb 3, 2014 07:57:45 AM
depend on one another for their shared experience and the broader that experience, the better.
a whole lot going on in my head today. i am disappointed that the home team forgot to show up last night in New Jersey, but hardly surprised. the silver lining, is that all the media coverage on the local stations will quickly fade to black, and the worlds at a Mile High will move on, yes a bit darker, but still mostly intact. i could be like others and say “that i had a feeling,” or “i predicted this,” but to what end. the Broncos lost and lost bad, 'nuff said, move along…
i can certainly look at this topic, from all sorts of angles, diversity that is not the Super Bowl, and i can already hear the chorus going but you said. here is my opinion, a diversity of backgrounds, life experiences and opinions is necessary for my group to flourish and for me to continue to grow in my personal program. that is not to say that any outside issues, philosophies or fellowships are at all necessary for the fellowship to thrive and my recover to have the richness of choices i need to grow.what that means, at least to me, is that the street junkie who crawled out of the dumpster to find recovery, is no less important to the homemaker who happened to like her mother's little helpers a bit too much. the fact that your path of spirituality is more mainstream than mine, is also unimportant, until i hear the words “you should” prefacing something about the path to a HIGHER POWER. right then and there, one has crossed the line to accepting diversity, to preaching a particular brand of spiritual life. i certainly respect, anyoneʼns right to find whatever path they need to, and to celebrate that path. what i detest and find oh so slimy and disgusting is someone trying to push that path, no matter how subliminally, down my throat. that is part of the reason, i am not in that other fellowship, where i started my recovery path. as i could stay on this soap box for quite some time, i think i will leave it with this, it always amazes how thin-skinned some members can get when it comes to looking at alternatives, myself included. my take on that is, if it is not in the literature than it is not part of my recovery program. BUT if it is part of one's life experience and shared that way, it is not only appropriate, but might even save my bacon someday. oh yeah, before i go:
a whole lot going on in my head today. i am disappointed that the home team forgot to show up last night in New Jersey, but hardly surprised. the silver lining, is that all the media coverage on the local stations will quickly fade to black, and the worlds at a Mile High will move on, yes a bit darker, but still mostly intact. i could be like others and say “that i had a feeling,” or “i predicted this,” but to what end. the Broncos lost and lost bad, 'nuff said, move along…
i can certainly look at this topic, from all sorts of angles, diversity that is not the Super Bowl, and i can already hear the chorus going but you said. here is my opinion, a diversity of backgrounds, life experiences and opinions is necessary for my group to flourish and for me to continue to grow in my personal program. that is not to say that any outside issues, philosophies or fellowships are at all necessary for the fellowship to thrive and my recover to have the richness of choices i need to grow.what that means, at least to me, is that the street junkie who crawled out of the dumpster to find recovery, is no less important to the homemaker who happened to like her mother's little helpers a bit too much. the fact that your path of spirituality is more mainstream than mine, is also unimportant, until i hear the words “you should” prefacing something about the path to a HIGHER POWER. right then and there, one has crossed the line to accepting diversity, to preaching a particular brand of spiritual life. i certainly respect, anyoneʼns right to find whatever path they need to, and to celebrate that path. what i detest and find oh so slimy and disgusting is someone trying to push that path, no matter how subliminally, down my throat. that is part of the reason, i am not in that other fellowship, where i started my recovery path. as i could stay on this soap box for quite some time, i think i will leave it with this, it always amazes how thin-skinned some members can get when it comes to looking at alternatives, myself included. my take on that is, if it is not in the literature than it is not part of my recovery program. BUT if it is part of one's life experience and shared that way, it is not only appropriate, but might even save my bacon someday. oh yeah, before i go:
Aaron F,
Congrats on SIX years of
“One Day At a Time”
Thanks for hanging out, No Matter What!
∞ DT ∞
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While the author is a member of a 12 Step recovery fellowship, these writings are not intended to endorse or express the published wisdom of any fellowship.
These writings are not meant to be socially or politically correct, and if you take issue with any opinions expressed, please seek the guidance of someone wiser than me.
Another Look!
↔ diversity ↔ 215 words ➥ Thursday, February 3, 2005 by: donnot∞ difference equals opportunity ∞ 315 words ➥ Friday, February 3, 2006 by: donnot
μ regardless of my personal background, i have two things in common with everyone in this fellowship that i share with no one else: μ 410 words ➥ Saturday, February 3, 2007 by: donnot
Δ i thought that if it was different, it was bad. in recovery, we can not afford such attitudes. δ 424 words ➥ Sunday, February 3, 2008 by: donnot
∞ addiction closed my mind to anything new or different. in recovery, i cannot afford such an attitude. ∞ 438 words ➥ Tuesday, February 3, 2009 by: donnot
ª recovery is not easy, the strength i need comes from my fellow members ª 498 words ➥ Wednesday, February 3, 2010 by: donnot
§ anyone may join, regardless of... § 582 words ➥ Thursday, February 3, 2011 by: donnot
‡ i must open my mind to experience that works, no matter where it comes from ‡ 440 words ➥ Friday, February 3, 2012 by: donnot
♦ i need every bit of experience, ♦ 643 words ➥ Sunday, February 3, 2013 by: donnot
§ i came to the fellowship because § 495 words ➥ Tuesday, February 3, 2015 by: donnot
☾ i need ☽ 778 words ➥ Wednesday, February 3, 2016 by: donnot
⇝ meeting the ⇜ 802 words ➥ Friday, February 3, 2017 by: donnot
😖 nothing of value 🤔 675 words ➥ Saturday, February 3, 2018 by: donnot
🌜 nothing of value 🌛 580 words ➥ Sunday, February 3, 2019 by: donnot
🌬 my very best thinking, 🌬 455 words ➥ Monday, February 3, 2020 by: donnot
🏜 regardless of 🏝 570 words ➥ Wednesday, February 3, 2021 by: donnot
🌊 different circumstances 🌊 414 words ➥ Thursday, February 3, 2022 by: donnot
😱 if it was 😶 395 words ➥ Friday, February 3, 2023 by: donnot
🤕 accepting my 🤕 458 words ➥ Saturday, February 3, 2024 by: donnot
☯ The Tao that can be spoken is not the eternal Tao ☯
by Lao-Tse
Translated by James Legge
Book 1
The thirty spokes unite in the one nave; but it is on
the empty space (for the axle), that the use of the wheel depends.
Clay is fashioned into vessels; but it is on their empty hollowness,
that their use depends. The door and windows are cut out (from the
walls) to form an apartment; but it is on the empty space (within),
that its use depends. Therefore, what has a (positive) existence serves
for profitable adaptation, and what has not that for (actual) usefulness.