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๐Ÿ€ offering my support ๐Ÿ€

Posted: Fri, Jun 7, 2019 09:05:08 AM

no matter what. Of course, there have been times when I have crossed the boundary between support and enabling. The problem for me anyhow, is for me, it has been a learning process to see where that line exists, and when I have crossed over it. When I discover I am on the wrong side of that line, my reaction is very extreme. The damage I do in that mode, to myself and to the person I have crossed over with, is without a holdover from the days of getting even when someone does me wrong. It really is not them that has done me wrong, it is me who has done me wrong.
So I do not have much more to say, except if you need some support, just reach out, I will do my best to give all that I can. I am better at detecting the boundary these days, so I can say “NO” much sooner and before I end up burning down the house.

∞ DT ∞


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Tao Te Ching

☯ The Tao that can be spoken is not the eternal Tao ☯

The Tao Teh King, or The Tao and Its Characteristics
by Lao-Tse
Translated by James Legge

Book 2

2) The tree which fills the arms grew from the tiniest sprout; the
tower of nine storeys rose from a (small) heap of earth; the journey
of a thousand li commenced with a single step.